a reader asked me about being a sex addict recently. i probably answered this question previously, it is difficult to tell what i've answered after the years and number of posts.
currently, i would classify myself a recovering sex addict. there was a point in my high school years where i would constantly chase the next orgasm. i would see a guy and think if he could give me a good orgasm. when i found someone that could give me an good or great orgasm, i would latch on to him and have one wild ride. the major issue with this behavior is the stupid risks or acts i took. i am very lucky that i didn't get an std or worse. i realized my actions were stupid and borderline suicidal (the dreaded std, HIV/AIDS). this is where i gained a measure of self control and not satiating every sexual urge or desire. the caged animal does escape from time to time but i limit the damage the creature does.
i hope that answers your question. another sex tip for women today: honey helps increase blood flow. this means a higher state of arousal and better orgasms.
- miss wolfe
3 comments:
OK, so honey helps. Eating? Applying to the clit? on the labia? Where and how?
It's good that you are being careful. I'm old enough to remember the days before HIV and can say that people's attitudes towards sex really haven't changed that much. In my experience, people tend to be worried/concerned about what they might catch; but they still do the same things as they always have. They know it's a risk; but like many things having to do with sex and relationships they concentrate on short term gratification and don't think about the future. Even when we get older, many of us still believe that we are invincible.
David.... I think all of the above! Just put it everywhere.
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