a reader asked me about being a sex addict recently. i probably answered this question previously, it is difficult to tell what i've answered after the years and number of posts.
currently, i would classify myself a recovering sex addict. there was a point in my high school years where i would constantly chase the next orgasm. i would see a guy and think if he could give me a good orgasm. when i found someone that could give me an good or great orgasm, i would latch on to him and have one wild ride. the major issue with this behavior is the stupid risks or acts i took. i am very lucky that i didn't get an std or worse. i realized my actions were stupid and borderline suicidal (the dreaded std, HIV/AIDS). this is where i gained a measure of self control and not satiating every sexual urge or desire. the caged animal does escape from time to time but i limit the damage the creature does.
i hope that answers your question. another sex tip for women today: honey helps increase blood flow. this means a higher state of arousal and better orgasms.
- miss wolfe