slut was gone last night to do her thing with a friend who is in town. the apartment was mine for the night. sam was back in town so i invited him over for dinner. i was going to take the advice given to me and tell him about loner-douche.
i made my vegetarian lasagna for sam. it usually gets rave reviews, but i don't tell them its vegetarian at first because people have a stigma against vegetarian food. sam was being affectionate, kisses and hugs. he wanted to help me with dinner but i told him to sit down. we talked about our lives since he went to his family reunion. when i got dessert, he asked me about the dinner party again.
i told him the same thing i wrote in the post. i really enjoyed his friends but didn't like loner-douche. he wanted to know why. i told him the whole story about going back to the bathroom. he sat there quiet for a moment. after he was done thinking, we spoke on it more. something was different about him. there was a change in his tone, not in a good way.
the remaining time, he was distant. it was almost like i did something wrong or disappointed him. i hate men.
- miss wolfe
7 comments:
He may just be disappointed in his friend. But, if not, at least you know where you stand.
I agree. He may have felt betrayed.
As for hating men, why?
if he was feeling betrayed, tell me it isn't my fault. tell me something that doesn't make me feel guilty. i am not the one with a douche friend.
While I'm not going to pretend to read his mind, I know *I* would be VERY pissed off if a friend of mine hit on a girlfriend. That has happened a couple of times in the past and I just simply stopped talking to them, because in my view, it's totally unforgivable.
His odd behavior could be that he that he was figuring out what he planned to do.
Look at it this way, if he takes up his buddy's side, it's best to find out this stage, isn't it?
Best of luck!
I completely agree with the rest of the comments. You did the right thing. If he isn't smart or mature enough to know that you did him a big favor than it is time to move on.
Don't feel guilty.
I don't suppose you bothered to ASK him why he turned quiet, perhaps the next day? I would if I were you. People need to speak to each other instead of bottling negative emotions up. One of you has to start the conversation.
Or, you know, you could just believe all the shit stirrers that want you to believe men are shite.
that's disappointing. maybe he just needs time to process the conversation.
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